Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Making a Difference


My blog has been neglected for quite a while.  Almost 6 months to be exact.  I’ve been toying with whether to give it up completely as I have not been very faithful to it.  Today, however, an old friend changed my mind and also gave me inspiration for a new topic, so today’s blog is a shout out to her.



My friend is Kelsey Luvender.  She is going into her junior year at Wake Forest University, and she writes a blog called Strawberry Mint.  You can find it here: www.strawberrymint.org.  The goal of her blog is to share her God-given passion for cooking and using healthy, natural ingredients with as many people as possible.  She develops and shares her own recipes, posts pictures of finished products (and products in progress), and writes in such an easy, engaging style that her blog is as fun to read as the recipes are to cook. 



I met Kelsey when I was in college, and she was a middle school student who was just beginning to grow in her faith and make it her own.  I was her small group leader, but I remember her teaching me as much as I (hopefully!) taught her.  I remember being so impressed with how honest she was and how critically she thought about the Lord and matters of faith.  Now, we have some mutual friends and contacts, and though Kelsey and I don’t talk often, I hear such wonderful things about her – about how solidly she stands in her faith, about how well she does academically, and about how wisely she does friendships and dating. 



This weekend, I decided to make one of the recipes on Kelsey’s blog – a peach/raspberry cake.  It was WONDERFUL!  It is EXACTLY as she describes – spongy, light, moist and a perfect summer treat.  Last night, I sent Kelsey a message on Facebook to tell her that I enjoyed the recipe.  Her response was so enthusiastic and sweet, and I could tell that it meant a lot to her that her blog had some followers.  She also praised my previous blog post and told me that the Lord had used it to speak to her.  I was floored.  Other than my brother JT, who signed up for email notifications, I didn’t think anyone read my blog!  Much less felt like God had used it to speak to them.



Her comment made me think about how we positively influence people every day and have no idea.  The importance of small actions has become more clear to me since I’ve moved to Charlotte.  I’ve been in Charlotte for a month now, and I am still trying to figure out my way around the city and make friends.  I’m shy and uncertain in new situations and places, so this move has called me to go out of my comfort zone often.  Last week, I went to a yoga class at the Y.  I have never taken yoga, and I didn’t know where to find the meeting room, but an older gentleman behind me overheard me ask directions to the class and volunteered to take me because he was also going.  He introduced himself to me – his name was Phil – and he showed me how to get to the room, where to put my mat, and what materials to get in preparation for the class.  He probably left the class and didn’t think about me again, but his hospitality gave me the courage I needed to try something new.  And for someone who on many days only gets face-to-face conversation with her husband, the conversation alone was meaningful to me!    



I guess the point is that you never know how you are impacting other people.  Phil probably thought that helping me was “no big deal,” but meeting him and going to the class were the highlights of my day and the first things I told Andy about that night.  Kelsey may think that what she does in the kitchen doesn’t help anyone, but I got to bake her cake with my mom, and the laughter and fun we had while baking were just as sweet as the dessert.  I might think no one is interested in reading this blog – and maybe they aren’t – but maybe one person will read this and think about the ways they can impact other people for Jesus.  It doesn’t take much to share the Lord with others.  You don’t have to be a preacher or lead a Bible Study or go on a mission trip.  Being his hands and feet can be as simple as opening a store door for a busy mom or including a wallflower in conversation or giving a smile to someone in an elevator.  Or posting a recipe on a food blog and showing a stranger to an exercise class.

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