Monday, November 11, 2013

Follow the Rules!! Or Maybe not...


I’m a “Follow the Rules” girl.  If someone semi-reliable tells me there is a right way to do almost anything, I’m going to do it – and do it consistently.  An example: Andy and I rarely disagree, but how much money we should put in a 401K is always a sore point.  He believes 12% is plenty especially when coupled with other investments.  I read a book called Automatic Millionaire several years ago, and from it, I’m convinced 15% is the bare minimum and 20% is much more desirable.  I’m pretty sure neither of us is actually wrong, but I have this rule in my head that I feel compelled to follow. 

 

My rules don’t only apply to my personal financial life.  They impact how I do my job and how I interact with others socially.  They even impact the way I view other people.  I say “bless you” when someone sneezes.  I follow almost every single school rule no matter how ridiculous I think it is.  For example, do I care if a kid has a hat on in class?  No.  That is absolutely not a priority to me.  But I don’t let kids wear hats because the school rule says they can’t.  When leaving church in a crowded parking lot, I impose the “alternating go” rule – allowing one car to go in front of me and expecting that someone will also let me into the line when it is “my” turn.  I become embarrassingly angry when cars don’t follow this rule and immediately speculate on whether they are really Christians and vent about how hypocritical they are not to allow the next waiting car in front of them after leaving a church service!

 

Innately, I believe that good people are rule followers.  Bad people break the rules.  You know who else believed the same thing?  The Pharisees.  They get a bad rap in the Bible (a well-deserved bad rap, I might say) but I think if we are honest, we could see ourselves in these guys. At least I know I do.

 

I’m reading Luke right now along with William Barclay’s commentary, and here is what I see about the Pharisees.  They know the Bible cover to cover.  They know it better than almost anyone else, and they really want to do what it says.  But, as we all know, parts of the Bible are not super clear.  God says to rest on the Sabbath.  Well, what does that mean?  What counts as work?  What counts as rest?  How do we know if we are truly following God’s call to rest on the Sabbath?  The religious people of the time wanted to do what God said, and they wanted to do it the right way, so they started trying to figure it out, and in figuring it out, they created all kinds of rules to help them follow the command.  It got to the point that, to be on the safe side, one type of work, carrying a burden, was defined (in part!) as “food equal in weight to a dried fig, enough wine for mixing in a goblet, milk enough for one swallow” (Barclay).  I’m no Biblical scholar, but as a modern example, it seems like it would be a sin to carry a baby bottle to feed a crying child – unless maybe you carried the milk one or two tablespoons at a time to fill the bottle in front of the child.

 

The rules became so difficult and restrictive that average people could not possibly carry them out.  The regular responsibilities of a household would prevent following every rule on the Sabbath.  The Pharisees, however, wanted so badly to do everything right that they “separated themselves from ordinary people and ordinary life in order to keep these rules and regulations,” in fact, their name ‘Pharisee’ even means ‘separated one’ (Barlcay). 

 

I think of these men who are trying so hard to be pleasing to God.  They are trying to do everything right and follow all the rules, and they aren’t enjoying life much as a result, but that is ok because they are finding their identity in the fact that they are at least keeping God’s commands.  And then here comes this Rabbi whom everyone loves, and he is breaking all the rules and teaching the people it is ok to do the same. This Rabbi Jesus even heals a man’s hand on the Sabbath – in the synagogue (of all places!) in front of the entire crowd.  He did that miracle clearly knowing the rule that healing was off limits on the Sabbath as it counted as work. 

 

Honestly, I can’t help but feel sorry for the Pharisees in this situation.  Not only does Jesus break all the rules on their turf, he even has the man stand up in front of the entire crowd and asks, “Which is lawful on the Sabbath: to do good or to do evil, to save life or to destroy it?”  He may as well be asking, “Who among you thinks the rules we’ve followed for decades are dumb?  Who thinks everything the Pharisees have built their lives trying to accomplish is useless?”

 

I know the Pharisees had it all wrong.  I know that Jesus was right.  I know he wanted them to see that their value was found not in rules but in God and in their service to others.  In my heart, I know that.  But I think about my own life, and I wonder how I would respond if someone came to me and said, “You know all those rules you’ve been following to try to be a good person?  They are worthless.  You are all wrong.”  I would seriously struggle.

 

In fact, reading Luke has made me question the rules Christians follow and whether they really matter.  For example, in some instances it is ok to wear jeans to church, but one should never wear sweatpants or a sweatshirt or shorts.  All Christians should serve their church in some capacity – work with children’s ministry, hand out bulletins, pass the offering plate – something.  Women should do women’s Bible Studies in addition to regular time alone with the Lord.  Christian women who don’t do at least a few Beth Moore studies aren’t very serious about their faith.  We shouldn’t work on Sundays, which means Chic-fil-a is the only truly Christian restaurant and that neighbor mowing his yard is a complete heathen.  The list goes on and on.  I know we all have rules and expectations about how Christians should behave that are not specifically mentioned in the Bible.  Reading Luke, I have to question whether our modern self-imposed rules are as ridiculous as the ones the Pharisees followed.  What would Jesus say if he stepped into our churches and homes?  Would he praise us for a job well done or would he tell us we are getting it all wrong – that our hearts have seriously missed the mark?

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